You remind me of this one woman who is always and forever in the gym about the same time I am. She’s immensely strong, and a pleasure to watch. Why? Because she’s completely focused, all business, super competent. I’d ask her to spot my any day. She could care less that anyone looks at her. She and I train just as hard but for very different reasons. Neither of us is there to preen. It’s all about strength, power, and endurance. For me, if I don’t train, I can die doing the stuff I do.