You are fireworks, Shefali. We don't always take into account those who are disabled (I am too, but for different reasons) and who are managing as best they can. This was, of course, largely focused on those of us who have our options and are ruining our health. I did it, too. I send you acres of warmth and thanks for your response.

Take all the trips and chances you can. None of us knows what we have left. Me, too.