Yael, I get it that folks feel the need to control, advise, corral others. However, after a while, honestly. I am not privy to other's inner world and it's rude for others to assume they understand mine or yours or anyone else's. I agree, although I gotta wonder, were we already like this or did the Internet simply encourage this kind of moray eel behavior?There are so many other ways to show up. Barking at authors isn't a healthy one, and barking more loudly at being given a polite and crisp boundary isn't healthy either. But that's just me.