While I would agree with Maverick Files below, I might add an addendum: it has nothing to do with JUST faux feminists. It's a whole community of aggrieved folks who are desperate for a whipping boy or girl. I get my fair share too. I am including a link in a DM out of respect for Dear Author, you and I are in alignment on this. You are well-read, well-spoken, and boy do we see eye to eye on so many things. I get accused of being a screaming fem man hater (were that the truth I'd not have bedded so many of them), a Libtard (nope) and much else. If you present as educated, thoughtful, well-read etc. you are a threat. It is the understanding that we live in a world of billions of shades of grey, all of which demands thoughtfulness and consideration from us, that drives so many to distraction. I am unhappy at the men/machine that created them who raped me repeatedly. That does not make all men evil. It means too many are. However, the need to hate ALL women/men/feminists/white males blah blah is a cheap, thoughtless cookie-cutter approach to a mosaic of difficult and challenging ideas. Just by acknowledging that yes, your views (and by contrast, mine too) will change over time, and they most certainly do, speaks to a delightful level of emotional maturity. What a delightful contrast to so much outrage generation.