… that if someone does it to me, that their words and actions have absolutely nothing to do with me… I can’t continue to dim myself to play along at someone else’s comfort level and pacify their insecurity.Thank you for this piece.31J.A.K.Julia E HubbelSep 4, 2019·1 min readWell said. By the same token,what happens when you and I uplift, encourage and support others?We uplift ourselves in the process. Just. That. Simple.