Vienna, many thanks. I would note here to your point that in a deeply patriarchal society, it is highly offensive that a woman chooses her sexual partners, particularly if her choices after a certain age (same for men, let’s be fair here) are wanting. The more religious the society, the more offensive the idea. The more matriarchal the society, the more natural this is. Because those societies recognize a woman’s right to pleasure as opposed to her job to please a man. Big diff.