To this, here is one of mine. I had forgotten this for 43 years. The problem is that the stories never, ever fully disappear. They inform, undermine and often devastate our lives in other areas: https://medium.com/@jhubbel/my-first-date-with-this-guy-was-a-gang-rape-the-ongoing-legacy-of-christine-blasey-ford-f15cfb942462