those assumptions, in part, Evan, could have been clarified. Especially the part about being a men's coach. That would have been both helpful and informational for my part. As for the guys, the "can't keep up" part is a low excuse. I have tried daing computer nerds. That engagement blew up when he slept with an old GF while I was on a business trip. I don't cheat on people. The others, well. Who knows, Evan. But for my part I don't much respect the hustle mentality, and that is purely my opinion. Hustlers turn into people that I wouldn't spend a minute of time with because the primary point seems to be the monetization of people. To that, one very hopeful Match date, after two lovely meetings, turned out to be grooming sessions for me to be in his MLM downline. That is abuse of the platform. That was his side hustle. I've been on the receiving end too many times. Which is why when I see the language, it is a major turnoff for good reason. Meanwhile I am heading back to Africa.