This is my overarching and most consistent experience with online dating. Here is the copy I put on my profile:

Please, LOOK LIKE YOUR PHOTOS. Kindly, gentlemen, I'll bet you have had the same experiences I've had over and over. When I say athletic and toned, I mean it. To that, research shows that 81% of singles lie on their profiles. It is supremely easy to check the veracity of what I claim, what I've done and continue to do, and I by god look like my photos.Please do NOT lie about your age, weight, work history, athletic ability. I could care less about your income, your 401K, your toys. I do indeed care about your integrity. I don 't write checks I have no intention of cashing either financially or emotionally. I'm an outlier, not an outliar.