There are plenty plenty plenty of clues in this article about what to do, and how to build trust. I am not, with all due respect, going to go down the rabbit hole to explain myself because I have too long a day ahead of me. However, after a lifetime of teaching reciprocity, living it and supporting it, I also preach boundaries. You seem to have utterly missed the point; that is our choice to pick and choose points from other's articles. We all do it, myself included. It's about boundaries and not taking advantage of people. I didn't state nor did I imply that we have to monetize every single thing. That is your choice of words. It's about boundaries, and finding ways to develop a relationship wherein we earn the support we seek. With that, best of luck.