There are endless women who believe precisely this same thing: I’ve done the hard work, I’ve punched the clock, where is the Big Love? It’s so easy to buy into this monumental nonsense. If we work too hard at being That Perfect One, we can chase off (at speed) the very person whose imperfections are perfect for us.

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