The inimitable Maddie Albright once said that there’s a special place in Hell for women who refuse to help other women. By the same token, there has to be a separate chamber in Hell for those women who spend their time ripping other women…..for whatever. ( Like clothing or makeup or fashion or age or weight etc) To your point, we all have our reasons. Half the human race, we all have our reasons. Men too. As long as what we choose doesn’t hurt or damage others, why on Earth would we want to rip each other? I’ve made that mistake far too many times. It’s taken me a little ng time to make those allowances. Trump cost me a close friend, but it wasn’t so much that fact as how she went about it, and a number of other actions and challenges that ended us. Not Trump per se. And she was one of the smartest women I know. She had her reasons, too.