THAT is what sister love looks like. Those women who have stayed the course with me, and I with them, do not judge. They know that I choose, and by choosing, I learn, I choose those lessons, and that is MY path. Not theirs to judge. Pick me up, dust me off, have a horse laugh with me, and I will do the same for you. Just as Charlotte Lucas says to Lizzie when Lizzie disapproves of her decision to marry the absurdly awful Mr. Collins in Pride and Prejudice, "Don't you dare judge me."