that is it in a nutshell. I walked away from societal norms when I was sixteen. the problem was wanting some guy to validate me. Given my generation that's been a long, hard road. I found my calling when I started doing adventure travel years ago, walked away from it to pay the bills, and finally came back to it around 2011. The last ten years have been a watershed. And boy have they pissed off the men. Too bad. For them, indeed, SC.