Thanks Erin. The honest to god truth is that in many ways I’d be likely to be happy with a buddy I could do epic stuff with , and have a partner that I am deeply attracted to but don’t necessarily do that stuff with. I wrote a piece about this a while back- it’s not necessarily either fair or reasonable to want one person to be our be all end all. Sometimes I’d just be happy for some great sex and then, kindly, please. Go. Home. Hahahahaha.