Thank you Shel. I would like to direct all on this discussion to this terrific article as well:

I am hugely fortunate I am with a man of morals, courage and manners. He is as outraged as the rest of us are. He is incensed that anyone would assume that attempted rape is just a guy thing or acceptable teenage behavior. Not if you’re well bred. This cretin and his brotherhood are not. They belong in a Northern Carolina pig sty.