Precisely. The wholesale chasing down of worthless life hacks as a way to by pass life’s real work gets us more work. It’s hard enough, Maggie, without muddying the pool trying to fit someone else’s version of what perfect looks like. Perfect is getting to know who WE are, what works for US, what is important to US. That’s hard work enough rather than chase some chimera of life perfection based on self help. It’s self sabotage, in effect. Thanks for your article.

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