Please see: https://medium.com/fearless-she-wrote/you-shouldnt-have-let-him-grab-you-7d7d355db6fc

While I appreciate your support, kindly, please do not make the assumption that I was either reticent (not on your life) or in any way, shape or form was cooperating. Man walked right up to me and grabbed, bypassing my hand, while I was on my way out of my seat. There was no fucking reaction time. I had a table in the way, and was hemmed in on both sides by more tables jammed in together. Given that I had no reason to expect the behavior, there was no possible way to “check a mofo,” quickness or not. Again, Sharon, I get your point. But kindly I would hesitate to assume anyone was being reticent. The situation didn’t allow for me to back up or get away and he knew it. Which is one reason why so many guys get away with so much so often.