Perhaps an even greater piece to this that Black hair -women's hair in particular- is just one more thing that has to be managed, controlled, and subjugated. Another thing that White folks don't understand. Let's not even discuss not to f*cking touch someone's hair - and NO don't ask- because that's like my walking up to a fellow walker and asking permission to pet their goddamned Labradoodle. It's just not okay. I don't think most White folks, especially those with limited experience, have any notion of how Black hair is a battleground. Still is.