Oh. You mean, I need to fix, change, adapt, chop up, shift Who I AM to get a man. Um……


To be fair, Zita, it is breathtaking how often single people are SO happy to try to offer us advice on how to fix ourselves in some way as though being untethered were in some way akin to being crippled. Nope.

Sometimes I think that our time alone is the best time, for it allows us to gather. Such time is priceless. For if we gather well, then what we might be able to offer the next person is far more complete. But that’s just me.

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