No it wasn't you. (You're safe) it was a complete stranger, which you are not in that sense that I see and read your stuff and you do me the same favor. As far as coffee, thanks for the reminder- I would love to meet now that I've had my shots. Fire away. There's a big diff here, between making friends and taking advantage of generosity. I have a very generous nature and unfortunately, my current bank account reflects it. To your point, I would avoid using the phrase; boy I have read some angry articles about it over the years. I only use it if I know the person very well and have permission to pick away, because it is indeed reciprocal. Lemme know when you want to meet.