LOL. To a certain extent, Derek, aren’t we all in some way or another? I’ve certainly been accused of it. However this morning I had to add a few extra provisos to my profile. To wit: Gentlemen, if you don’t fit what I am saying is my preference (athletes, for example, like I am) then please do not reach out to me, for that will end in rejection, which nobody enjoys. By the same token, if you reach out anyway, that telegraphs the fact that you’re unwilling either to honor what is important to me or you can’t be bothered to read what I say in my profile. That tells me how you treat your women.

It’s a damned pity I have to put this in writing, but I’ve had to block hundreds of profiles because when I say no, they go ballistic, are deeply insulted (HOW DARE YOU SAY NO TO ME) and want to take a chunk out of me.

It’s exhausting. I think I”m going to go back to bed .

Horizon Huntress, prize-winning author, adventure traveler, boundary-pusher, wilder, veteran, aging vibrantly. I own my sh*t. Let’s play!

Get the Medium app

A button that says 'Download on the App Store', and if clicked it will lead you to the iOS App store
A button that says 'Get it on, Google Play', and if clicked it will lead you to the Google Play store