That temptation is often compounded by social media and articles offering a carefully edited window into someone’s high-powered schedule. “When you have more access to other people’s lives, even thou…When Self-Help Just Makes Your Life Worse14.3K56Magdalena PuniewskaJulia E HubbelDec 8, 2018·1 min readKey words. We have no clue how much staff they have so that they can read their 100 books a year. Who cooks, cleans, and scrubs their toilets so that they can do their thing. It is enormously misleading.