Katy, it IS a degrading sexual comment. Having been on the receiving end of plenty of them when I was heavy, trust me, it’s just as bad as the sexual assault I also was subjected to. Assault is assault is ASSAULT. Hate and shame in any form are hate and shame. It makes no difference.

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