… talking self-awareness, a little (or a lot) of that quality won’t go astray in the bedroom either — an unselfish lover makes the world go-around … and around.4 Things Women in Their 40’s Really Want in a Man5.5K71Kim PetersenJulia E HubbelMar 28, 2020·1 min readIt’s been so long since I had one of these I have decided to put this on the Endangered Species List.