It makes all the sense in the world to hire someone to help us clarify our shit. However, we think we know. We don't. The greatest gift in the goddamned world is to KNOW you don't know, have the common sense and courtesy to be able to SAY you don't know, and the motivation to go find someone who DOES know to walk you through. Then you learn. That's powerful. It's also adult. Good story, Linda.