I'm not active on here any more, but am happy to respond. I have never ever EVER had an issue with someone who was much more of a homebody, preferred safety, or had far less of a need than I did to head to the hinterlands. That isn't the issue. The assumption that I had those expectations all based on fear had more to do with a lifetime alone. We make all kinds of idiot assumptions about people with absolutely no factual evidence. I spent time with a computer nerd who had never set foot in a gym and never would. He slept with an old girlfriend while I was on a business trip. He explained it away by claiming, breathtakingly, that I was sleeping with men during my travels. I am so loyal that it's almost ridiculous. I would never do such a thing, but there you go. He assumed, out of fear, and he shot that in the ass as a result by being an ass. I am no the author of such fears and am tired to the bone of such ridiculous claims. He might have spoken to me. Instead he fucked me over. I really have lost faith, and these days just prefer animals. I am so very done.