I wonder if there's a new mental illness afoot: Trauma Trivialization. That people would do this kind of thing in the first place speaks to an unspeakable lack of morals, empathy or any kind of value set. I think you nailed it for a great many folks. It's like the new wave of Tony Robbinses, if you will, all you gotta do is walk across the hot coals and you'll be cured. Sure, asshole.