I put this another way, Sean. We write checks we can’t cash.
When a guy with thirty plus pounds on his belly and no deltoids at ALL shows up and meets me at Starbucks, this is who shows up:

It’s not bragging if you’ve done the work. Not in the slightest. I am athletic and toned. At 67 (this pic is at 65). I am beyond frustrated at the liberal interpretation of what it means to be seriously in shape.
But, the funny stories. Oh, the stories…..