I might posit that if emotional vulnerability and intimacy aren’t available with your partner, you have a fuck buddy. Nothing wrong with that, but call it what it is. Not the one. Not the love of your life. A nice treat between the sheets.

And yes, knowing that your (whatever) shares their most intimate and difficult and important information is a monumental statement about your lack of value in this regard.

In the single most important regard, that is.

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