“I filtered other people’s relational feedback based on their track records. Have you ever been in a situation where the person giving you relationship advice couldn’t themselves hold one down? In the same way I wouldn’t come to someone who was totally out of shape for advice on working out, the idea of giving weight to the opinions of someone who isn’t excelling in their relationship is ridiculous. Plenty of people have tried to tell us the best way Rachel and I should be doing our marriage. If those voices come from people who are killing it in their own relationship, their thoughts are welcome. But... if the feedback you’re getting is coming from someone who can’t keep a steady relationship, you best filter out their feedback as it does not come from a credible source.”