But some people can’t ever handle the world. They never help anyone else, because they always need your support and encouragement and understanding, and maybe a little bit of money. Their life is always blowing up, and they’re the ones lighting the fuse.
I had a friend for years who did this precise thing. She was always and forever going to her online community for help, guys? It worked for a long time- there were always new people- but she exhausted her bank account with those of us who knew her long enough. She was a Black Hole.