I found it fascinating how many people- especially women- badly misread and misinterpreted this article. You didn’t. You got it at the heart. However we define ourselves going forward is far more a matter of what makes us sing. What puts the bird in our chest? And who cares if someone else feels that we’re outside the lines? As women we’ve forced to stay inside the lines for most of our lives. Permission to play please. Yes. Let’s.