For example: my 21 concussions (self inflicted, kindly, for the most part) often cause me to have horrific emotional outbursts. All I can do is apologize and explain. They are NOT an excuse to be a shitheel and expect others to tolerate or even ignore the behavior. I’m still being a shitheel. It’s not an excuse. They are waters I have to navigate as best I can. We all have difficult days. We simply don’t need to make others suffer because of them.