Great read. And thank you from a fellow vet.

I did wish to share a slightly different perspective on forgiveness, but this has to do not with yourself but of a perpetrator. This is from a fellow Medium writer and friend Dr Rosenna Bakari:

This is purely for what it's worth. Dr. B does transformational work, is a PhD in psychology and one of the most brilliant women I know. Worth a read if for nothing other than just a different take on the topic.

I am proud for you that your deep caring for another's pain caused you to care, but am sorry for the pain you carried. I have been raped and attacked too many times, most in the military. I am not glad it happened but would not trade how those events shaped who I have become. That is part of the path.

Horizon Huntress, prize-winning author, adventure traveler, boundary-pusher, wilder, veteran, aging vibrantly. I own my sh*t. Let’s play!

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