Ann, that happened to me at a funeral for a most beloved mentor. I had been invited to present, but the pastor shut me down and told me to get off the lectern seconds after I got started. It wasn't just rude. It was deeply disrespectful and hurtful, for this was an invitation from the family. She was an asshole. As it was a funeral, I did nothing. But I never forgot. You don't, do you?