And one more thing before I go hike: I am not intimating you should have stuck it out. Not at all, for her behavior was peurile. The point is more that learning how to adapt to differences in our opposites is part of succeeding in life. At work, at home, everywhere. That's the whole point. When we surround ourselves with too much that reinforces who we are, we can potentially rob ourselves of genuine growth, a statement that is just as relevant in terms of Jungian styles as it is with color, race, gender, culture, religion, etc.