…se how they think or feel with a sentence that starts with “you,” as in “You seem to feel,” or “You always want.” This will only alienate the other person and erase the alliance you have been working so har…How to Win Your Next Argument3.6K22Lesley Alderman, LCSWJulia E HubbelOct 9, 2018·1 min readAlways and Never? Them’s fighting words. Kerosene on the fire. Exaggeration loses a fight. So very true.