Again, I am not speaking about ALL bullies, in this particular sentence I am speaking about THIS person and THIS situation. I wrote about my brother's experience which speaks to what you wrote. You can choose to tease out only those elements which allow you to make your point but it's already in the article. I don't argue the veracity of your points, please kindly read the piece carefully. I fear you're taking things a little out of context, but again, I can't speak for you or anyone else. When you raise these points, and I can return to my article and find the material there, it makes me wonder if you're reading it carefully.