This. You say a lot of good things in here about foreplay but to me the trust thing is even more…101Grace LeighJulia E HubbelMar 29, 2019·1 min readAbsolutely positively. When I lost trust with the BF that ended the comfort factor. When I felt pressured to allow anal sex that was the end of fun and the beginning of pain. And the beginning of the end. Agree completely.